Stop ignoring red flags

You know how when you're interacting with someone and some red flags start to appear but you really like them so you kind of gloss over the flags so you can continue interacting with that person??

We got to stop ignoring those red flags!!

That's much easier said than done, especially when you are really feeling them or feel like you all are really making a good connection. The reason is that when you like someone then you somehow convince yourself that it's nothing, or you just overlook it all together when those flags start to present themselves. But then, later on down the line, that same thing that you overlooked turns out to be an even bigger issue but you don't realize it until after the fact and you've taken time to reflect on the things that happened and you realize had you just taken the red flags for what they were you could have saved yourself a lot of trouble.

That doesn't go to say that people can't change or things can't be different down the line but it does go to say that we got to stop ignoring the red flags. We got to start addressing those flags when they arise and make a decision from there as to how we move forward. The great thing about addressing them is that we can make a more uniformed decision on the best way to move forward with the situation.

Either way, stop ignoring the red flags!! Once you start to see them, address it and make a conscious decision as to whether you stay or move forward.

The choice is yours!